Transcending Infertility
9 Keys to Improving Fertility, Creating Miracles, and Being a Better Human
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- Reduce the Trauma, Anxiety, All Consuming Thoughts, and Desperation of Infertility.
- Create Peace
- Learn new science to help Improve Fertility
- Purposefully Create Miracles
- Be an Improved, Authentic Version of Yourself.
- Get Actionable Steps you can use right NOW
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Maria’s raw, authentic and endearing account of her fertility journey is relatable to so many. She shines light on the lessons and purpose that can be found once we move from resistance to acceptance. Transcending Infertility is a ‘girlfriend’s guide’ to living with and learning from infertility. Her humor and vulnerability helps empower the reader to move out of desperation and into peace on whatever their path may be.
So many of us seek perfection in ourselves and those around us. It is truly wonderful when you can start to see the beauty in the imperfect. Infertility is a subject surrounded in shame and secrecy. It is refreshing to hear someone in the profession tell their journey, openly and honestly. The keys you discuss can benefit all people, infertility or not. We all seek the same thing. Unconditional love…for ourselves and others.
Improve Fertility
Go beyond diet, supplements, and exercise. Learn new science around consciousness, mind, body, and soul. Cultivate an understanding in finding balance between these aspects of yourself, and why it is essential for your fertility.
Get Practical tools
Enjoy clear, actionable steps throughout this book to create your own 90 day program for healing and growing. Be ready to foster deep connections with yourself and the world around you, all within the context of your path to parenthood.
Create Miracles
You have no idea the power you already hold to create your own miracles. Science meets spirituality in this book to teach you how miracles are less “woo-woo” and actually firmly in your hands.
Be A Better You
Did you ever think that something as tragic as infertility could actually make you a better person? Learn to cultivate compassion and peace toward yourself and others through healing your heart and living with ease.
No more feeling stuck,
emotionally spent,
fearful of the future,
heartbroken,
and wondering if your miracle baby may never be.
9 KEYS and 90 DAYS to Creating a New You
on your journey to parenthood,
and moving closer to your miracle
than you’ve ever been.
Chapter 1: What IF
All the why and how you want to read this book for optimal fertility, creating miracles, and being a better you.
Chapter 2: Oh. Hello, Infertility.
The roller coaster ride begins in this introduction to Maria’s often hilarious, heartfelt, and sometimes dark journey to parenthood.
Chapter 3: Quiet the Desperation
You and Desperation have gotten to know each other quite well, haven’t you? Unfortunately, Desperation is toxic for your fertility, and it’s time to break up. This chapter is all about how to do so.
Chapter 4: Infertility Masks
If you’ve been dealing with infertility, you likely know how to fake that all is well. This is what I call wearing your infertility mask. It’s tiresome, exhausting, and plain annoying to have to pretend you’re someone you’re not. On the other hand, masks are useful when you need to protect yourself. This chapter is about donning your masks wisely.
Chapter 5: I Just Should on Myself
Do you ever beat yourself up? Feel like your mind’s being read right now? This chapter helps you identify and begin changing your “coulda-shoulda-woulda” language toward yourself (and others!). It’s tiresome, exhausting, and plain annoying to have to pretend you’re someone you’re not. On the other hand, masks are useful when you need to protect yourself. This chapter is about donning your masks wisely.
Chapter 6: Letting Go is Not Giving Up
This is a tough one. Letting go of one’s dream seems like total failure, doesn’t it? Yet, it’s not. This chapter explains how letting go is essential for your fertility, and it is the complete opposite of giving up on your dream of parenthood.
Chapter 7: Shrink IF
You’ve made infertility your whole world. That sucks. And truthfully, you’ve lost yourself in the process. Who are you anyway? Get yourself back by putting infertility back in it’s rightful place: Important, but not everything.
Chapter 8: Trust You
You know that thing where people seek to follow social norms (like date someone, get married, buy house with picket fence, have 2.4 children, etc.)? What if you don’t have to do that? What if you can attend to your own inner guidance and know instantly what is best for you? This chapter helps you understand and access your true power.
Chapter 9: Be the Bamboo
Even with the best laid plans, shit happens. It’s incredibly important to know how to move through hard times when they hit us. Rather than getting stuck, you are capable of letting hard times pass through you while you wait. Like a bamboo tree, you flex with difficulty. Well, maybe read this chapter first. Then you’ll flex like a pro.
Chapter 10: What IF Miracles Happen?
Yeah, what if miracles happen? In this chapter, you’re asked to get fully into the headspace of wondering what would happen if positive things were always on their way to you. It’s a profound shift in how you experience life by a tiny shift in thinking. You don’t want to miss the story in this chapter or the practical skills to get your miracles on!
Chapter 11: Dear Infertility
“Dear” and “infertility” don’t belong in the same sentence, right? Or do they? In this final lesson, you get to read Maria’s letter to Infertility. Raw and honest, it is truly a lesson that brings home the point “be a better human.”
Chapter 12: Conclusion (The Beginning)
A clearly outlined new version of you and your life after you have put these new skills to practice. Your new, fertile, miraculous, authentic life.
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I highly recommend this book to anyone who is experiencing or has experienced infertility. First, I must say that as a male who has walked the road of infertility alongside my wife every step of the way, it is critically important that BOTH partners in a relationship seek out support when going through infertility. For those of you at the beginning of the journey, marshal those support resources like TRANSCENDING INFERTILITY now rather than later. Expect challenges, expect dark times, but know that the tools that Dr. Maria lays out will help you not only survive but thrive no matter how your infertility journey plays out. By weaving her own story in all its messiness and vulnerability, Dr. Maria teaches a set of clear keys, accompanied by concrete action steps and guided meditations that give you a clear course to navigate the challenge of infertility. If you read this book, follow the action steps, and use the guided meditations, you’ll come out the other side recognizing that you are more powerful than you ever thought.
Dr. Maria’s words spoke to my soul and have helped me begin the process of healing my broken spirit. I am inspired and firmly believe that I can find meaning in my struggles and become a better person because of them. As both a mental health professional and a woman who has truly transcended infertility, Dr. Maria lends a unique perspective to the issue. She has bravely chosen to reveal a deeply personal side of herself for the benefit of her readers. This book is incredibly relatable, and I have no doubt that any woman struggling with infertility would find something that resonates with them. I have read many books about infertility and this one is truly transformative. Give yourself the gift of self-care and read this book!
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Maria T. Rothenburger, PhD, LPC, CHt is a professional counselor and coach specializing in family building issues. She has spent the last ten years supporting people experiencing the devastating emotional, physical, and spiritual impact of fertility struggles. You can discover more about Maria and her work at www.drmariarothenburger.com and listen to her unique perspectives as host of The Miracles Happen Fertility Podcast. Maria enjoys learning piano and ukulele, singing, wine tasting, laughing daily, and living life in Oregon with her husband and five kids (two humans, two canines, and one feline).